What Really Motivates Me
If I’m honest, motivation for me isn’t some grand, constant feeling. It’s messy and unpredictable. Some days, I wake up ready to take on the world, and other days, I’m struggling just to get out of bed. But over time, I’ve learned to pause and listen—to understand what really drives me, especially when motivation feels out of reach.
At the center of it all, gratitude to God holds a special place in my heart. In moments of uncertainty or overwhelm, turning toward God reminds me that I’m never truly alone. This gratitude grounds me, offering peace and a quiet confidence that whatever I face, there is a purpose and a plan beyond what I can see.
There’s this quiet part inside me that craves growth. It’s like a small voice saying, “Keep going, there’s more to discover.” When I learn something new or push myself a little further, even if it’s uncomfortable, I feel alive. That slow, steady improvement reminds me why I keep trying—it’s not about perfection, but about becoming a better version of myself. I see this growth as part of the journey God has set for me, a path where each step is shaped by His grace.
“We cannot become what we want by remaining what we are.”
— Max DePree
What really lights a fire under me is turning my thoughts into reality. I remember one moment a few years ago, staring at a blank screen, scared I had nothing valuable to say. The first words finally typed were shaky, but when they came, everything shifted. That sense of creation, of bringing something from my mind into the world—it’s addicting. It’s proof that I am capable and that my voice matters. I believe God’s guidance plays a quiet role in those moments, giving me wisdom beyond myself.
I also get motivated when I think about the people I care about, whether it’s helping a friend or reaching out to strangers through my words or actions. There’s a deep satisfaction in knowing that what I do can touch someone else’s life—maybe even just a little. That connection grounds me and makes all the effort feel meaningful, reminding me that love and kindness are reflections of God’s presence in our lives.
Let me tell you about a time when motivation felt almost impossible. Last year, I faced a project that seemed overwhelming and beyond my abilities. I spent days procrastinating, doubting if I could finish it. One evening, I caught myself questioning if I should just give up. But then, a thought came to me, a quiet reassurance: “You don’t have to be perfect; you just have to start.” I saw this as a nudge from God, inviting me to surrender control and take the first step anyway.
I began by writing just one paragraph that night. Slowly, that one paragraph grew. With each small step, I felt a spark rekindling, reminding me that progress counts, even if it’s slow. The project wasn’t perfect in the end, but finishing it felt like winning a personal battle. That experience deepened my faith that sometimes motivation is simply about showing up for yourself and trusting God’s timing, even when it’s hard.
Challenges? They scare me, especially those moments when I doubt myself. But surrendering those fears to God’s care has shown me strength I didn’t know I had. Every obstacle isn’t just a problem—it’s a chance to prove to myself, and to God, that I’m more resilient than I think. And that feeling of overcoming is something I keep coming back to.
“Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths.”
— Arnold Schwarzenegger
On the hardest days, gratitude to God pulls me back. I remind myself how blessed I am to have opportunities, people who believe in me, and a chance to keep trying. This gratitude shifts my focus from exhaustion to possibility, and that tiny change can make the difference between giving up and taking one more step forward.
Surrendering to God doesn’t mean giving up on my dreams. It means trusting that in His hands, every effort and setback has meaning. This surrender renews my motivation in a way no sheer willpower ever could. It allows me to rest when needed and keep moving forward with hope and courage.
So yeah, motivation is complicated for me. It’s about little moments of growth, creation, connection, gratitude—to God—and surrender. It’s messy and sometimes fragile, but it’s real. And I’m learning to honor it even when it doesn’t roar.
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